Vedas about man and woman. Methods for building correct relationships Torsunov Oleg Gennadievich

Chastity

Chastity

The third quality of a woman is chastity. Chastity is a very important quality. This means that a woman should not cheat on her husband. There are seven qualities of a woman that enable her to be chaste.

First quality - woman shouldn't be greedy. Greed is the desire to have yourself. According to the Vedas, the senses are attached to some objects. Since the senses have a subtle material nature, they really permeate the object to which they are attached. They are like tentacles; and the mind, experiencing their influence, begins to show anxiety, and gradually a desire arises in it to possess this object. Therefore, if a woman is very greedy for sexual pleasures, then naturally at some point her husband may not be satisfied with something and she will begin to become attached to other men. First, look at them, saturating them with your feelings. Then more and more she will want to cheat on her husband. Sooner or later, chastity will be destroyed. As a result, the happiness of the family will also be destroyed.

A woman should be satisfied under all circumstances. We know that women, often without realizing this, demand more from their husbands than they are capable of giving. Let's say a wife demands more money from her husband or something else, does not want to be satisfied. As a result, conflicts begin because the man is also dissatisfied. He tries to do his best, but his wife is still unhappy. Since the wife is energy, when she is unhappy, she begins to spread her power of unhappiness to everyone around her. For example, if the husband is dissatisfied, he can keep it to himself, and, in principle, if he behaves quietly, the wife may not notice it. But if the wife behaves quietly, but at the same time is unhappy, then all those around them will feel discontent within themselves and quarrels will arise, because the wife is energy, it is a force that affects everyone around. Thus, if the wife is dissatisfied under any circumstances, then the family has a great tendency to disputes and conflicts.

Second quality. Chaste woman skillfully conducts his household chores. It is very important to understand that when a woman is clean, she naturally has a taste for doing household chores. When she is unclean, that is, not chaste, walking somewhere, then household chores do not interest her, and she does not conduct them very skillfully. Because the skill of a woman depends purely on the desire to do something pleasant to her husband, to seem like a good person to him. She does everything in order to satisfy her loved one - such is the nature of a woman. If she has no one to satisfy in this house, then everything falls out of her hands, and from this household chores do not go so skillfully.

Third quality... A woman should be familiar with the laws of life. These laws are called religious rules. In every faith, in every teaching there are religious rules of life, and a woman must be familiar with them in order to know whether what a man requires of her is in accordance with the law. If this does not comply with the law, then she must gently, in a humble manner, object to him, and there will be nothing wrong with it. But if she is not familiar with the laws of life, does not know how to organize everything correctly, then when her husband makes a remark to her or simply invites her to do something in some way, she may disagree and a conflict arises.

Fourth quality. A woman should be able to speak pleasantly. When she speaks pleasantly, even if she feels offended and annoyed, pleasant speech creates an impression of respect. Pleasant speech means that the person is speaking respectfully. Respectful speech mitigates conflict. It allows people to come to a common opinion, which is why respectful speech naturally introduces everyone to a state appeasement.

Fifth quality... Also, a woman should be able to speak truthfully. When a husband notices that his wife is at least a little cunning with him, he is completely disappointed in her. It is very important for a man that a woman is open and honest towards him. It is a natural quality of a woman to be simple and honest and to reveal to her husband all the deep moments of her character, her psyche.

Sixth quality. Should always be attentive. This is a very important point. It often happens that due to carelessness, people quarrel and lose each other. An attentive wife will be able to guess the bad moment in the life of her husband or her children. Every person has bad periods in their lives. Close people should be attentive and guess these bad periods. Thus, you need to be attentive to the changes in your family and friends.

Seventh quality - be clean, we have already disassembled it.

Thus, having all these eight qualities, a woman becomes chaste, that is, she does not have the slightest desire to go somewhere and engage in illegal things with some other person.

All of the above qualities can be called in one word - female virtue. Virtue means "doing good." A man does good in this world in his own way, a woman in her own way. And there are signs of female virtue. They form five postulates.

FIRST POSTULATE - serving your husband. Serving a husband, in turn, is expressed in four principles. To serve is to help him. It is said that a woman who has embarked on the path of serving her husband becomes absolutely protected from all difficulties in life, because a man is not able to abandon the woman who serves him. He is not able to cheat on her. A man is not capable of speaking badly about her, even if she has flaws. And a man is not capable of endangering such a woman if she really serves him. The principles of serving a husband are as follows.

The first principle is very close and intimate. This means that a woman should be a very close friend to a man, that is, she should listen to all his problems, inspire him, in any case act according to his capabilities and always give him enthusiasm. The fact is that a woman has shakti - in Sanskrit shakti means "energy". A woman has energy and she is able to inspire any man, especially her husband. Thus, she must serve him very closely.

The second principle is that it must serve him with great reverence. It is very important to understand that the more a woman respects, honors her husband, the more opportunities a man gives her to advise, the more he involves her in his inner life. Thus, the more a wife reveres her husband, the more close and intimate he begins to relate to her. When a woman honors her husband, she is very successful in communicating with him.

The third principle is that the wife should learn control yourself, even if there is some misunderstanding. A woman may lose control in her relationship with her children, but if she controls herself in her relationship with her husband, her husband will protect her in any situation. The husband for her is the last resort, he protects his wife under any circumstances of life. Therefore, if the husband has any misunderstandings, and the wife is determined to act in this way, then she will receive support and protection in all her affairs.

The fourth principle of serving the husband means that the wife should always wish him well and say pleasant words to him. If a woman observes the fourth principle, she gets a very strong man's favor. A man is rude by nature, but his rudeness will not automatically touch her if she wishes him well and says pleasant words to him. Rudeness can touch anyone, just not her. He will be angry with anyone, be rude to anyone, sort things out with anyone, but not with her. Thus, the wife can use all the positive qualities of her husband in order to achieve happiness in life, and the bad qualities are compensated by themselves by the strength of his positive qualities.

The SECOND POSTULATE of female virtue is kindness to her husband. Each postulate is fundamental, that is, having one of them, a woman automatically becomes virtuous in relation to her husband, and he perceives her as a person who brings him great benefit. Even if she is not capable of serving him strongly, but is benevolent, he will undoubtedly still consider her a good person and treat her well. (Although the first postulate is service to the husband, benevolence is the second.)

THIRD POSTULATE - good relations with relatives and friends of the husband. Compliance with this postulate also makes it possible to have lasting relationships in the family, because when quarrels begin in the family, the husband's relatives and friends will help the wife understand this person. Although they will speak from his position, but, being her friends, they will communicate with her very intimately and will try to explain why he behaves this way. And in the end, the couple will make up.

The FOURTH POSTULATE, although it is in fourth place, is actually one of the most important. it sharing the vows with the husband. A vow means giving up a certain activity with a desire to achieve some goal. The person refuses to do something or, on the contrary, says: "I will always do this and that to achieve such and such a goal." The wife shares his vows with her husband, for example, if the husband says: “I will never eat meat food - it prevents me from getting rid of problems. I want to have a good mood in life, "- the wife says:" I also want to do this. " That is, they take a vow of vegetarianism, which is very popular in India. As a result, the whole family becomes vegetarian. When they take common vows in life, it helps them a lot for overall progress, for good family relationships. People start to be proud of each other as strong people.

THE FIFTH POSTULATE The most important element of marriage is fidelity. This must be taken into account, and this must be understood. Faithfulness means that there can be no question of disregarding marriage vows. We have already listed the qualities of the wife's character, which are in themselves vows, this is stated in the Vedic literature. In other words, vows must be made and must be followed. The most important vow is loyalty. Therefore, spouses who take such a vow are sure to achieve success in life.

All this enables the wife to be chaste.

This text is an introductory fragment.

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It is now widely believed in society and even among doctors that the physiological benefits of abstinence are just medieval religious superstitions and scientific ignorance, and this is incompatible with modern knowledge of physiology.

Some doctors use this idea for their own commercial gain and create fears in society about abstinence, which is allegedly a cause of diseases of the nervous system and detrimental to overall health. Based on this belief, doctors and psychoanalysts sometimes go so far as to advise young men to use the services of prostitutes, arguing that the risk of contracting a venereal disease is incomparable with the harmful effects on the nervous system from long abstinence.

Further study of this article, however, should convince any sane reader that everything written above is a lie, and that abstinence, in fact, cannot harm, but on the contrary is useful; and that when there are any health problems in non-sexually active people, it is only the result of unhealthy sexual behavior. Considering the fact that sperm is very rich in substances such as lecithin, cholesterol, phosphorus, it becomes clear that the loss of these valuable substances, together with insufficient nutrition, is the cause of disturbances in the functioning of the nervous system and brain, and not abstinence, contrary to the absurd claims of corrupt psychoanalysts ...

We have made sure that the secretions of the gonads are the basis for the vital energy of a person, both physical and mental. This is achieved through sperm reabsorption. Sperm retention means retention of sex hormones and increased energy, while sperm loss means loss of hormones and decreased energy. Chronic deficiency of sex hormones leads to the appearance of symptoms of aging. Sperm is a viscous liquid with an alkaline reaction, very rich in calcium and phosphorus, as well as lecithin, cholesterol, protein, iron, vitamin E, etc. For one ejaculation, a man loses about 226 million spermatozoa which contain a large amount of lecithin, cholesterol, proteins and iron. One ounce of semen is worth 60 ounces of blood. In this regard, Dr. Frederick McCann is convinced that the seed really has enormous potential, as claimed by ancient scientists.

Sperm contains substances of high physiological value, especially for the nutrition of the brain tissue and the nervous system. It is known that the absorption of sperm through the wall of the female vagina has a very positive effect on the female body, the same should take place in the body of the man, in which this semen is stored. Conversely, sperm loss should deprive the body of vital energy and valuable substances necessary to nourish nerve cells, such as lecithin, which has been used therapeutically with great success in treating neurasthenia resulting from sexual excesses.

Here are some facts that demonstrate the benefits of abstinence:

1. The chemical composition of sperm is very close to that of the cells of the central nervous system (especially cholesterol, lecithin and phosphorus).

2. Excessive loss of semen (through masturbation , sexual intercourse, interrupted sexual intercourse, sexual intercourse using contraception) are debilitating and harmful to the body and brain.

3. Excessive unintentional loss of semen (nocturnal emissions, spermatorrhea, etc.) has a detrimental effect on the nervous system and can cause neurasthenia.

4. Studies have shown that orgasm for some time depresses the nervous system, and if abused, it often leads to chronic nervous diseases (genital neurasthenia)

5. Abstinence is good for the brain (as valuable lecithin, which is one of the most important components of the brain, is preserved). Many great geniuses practiced abstinence, among them Pythagoras, Plato, Aristotle, Leonardo Da Vinci, Nietzsche, Spinoza, Newton, Kant, Beethoven, Wagner, Spencer, and others.2

6. Experiments by Professor Brown Sacward and Professor Steinack prove the rejuvenating effect of male semen.

7. Leading physiologists, urologists, genitourinary specialists, neuropathologists, psychiatrists, sexologists, gynecologists and endocrinologists confirm the physiological value of abstinence. Among them are Moll, Kraepelin, Marshall, Lydston, Talmey and others.

Professor von Gruber München, an eminent sex therapist, says that it is absurd to consider semen as harmful, unnecessary secretions like urine, which require regular excretion from the body. Sperm is a vital fluid that is not only reused by the body during sexual abstinence, but thanks to this reabsorption, has a positive effect on physiological health, which is confirmed by the great geniuses who practiced complete abstinence for most of their lives. Dr. Bernard S. Talmy, an eminent American gynecologist, takes this point of view, and believes that semen, in the absence of excitatory factors, is completely absorbed through the seminal vesicles, thereby making abstinence easy and habitual over time.

Professor Alfred Fournier, a renowned physiologist, ridicules the idea of \u200b\u200b“the dangers of abstinence for a young man, and that during his many years of medical practice, he never encountered any such case. Professor Montegazza, on the other hand, is convinced of the positive effects of chastity on both the body and the brain. Dr. John Harvey Kellogg cites the example of many famous athletes of Ancient Greece (like Astylos, Dopompos and others mentioned by Plato) who practiced total abstinence during their training, which contributed to their unusually high energy levels. Professor Furbringer, a brilliant German researcher, writes: "Abstinence, contrary to the opinion of modern medicine, is not harmful to health." He writes that bachelor problems do not arise from abstinence, but from masturbation and other forms of lust gratification. Krafft-Ebing, a sex expert, considers the "abstinence disease" a myth.

The gynecologist, Loewenfeld, considers it quite possible for a healthy person to live in complete abstinence without any side effects. Professor, endocrinologist F.G. Lydston University of Illinois: "Abstinence can never be harmful. Moreover, keeping semen in the testicles often has a positive effect on physical and mental energies." Chassaignac argues that the healthier a person is, the easier it is for him to practice total abstinence; only pathologically sick people with an unhealthy nervous system find abstinence difficult. Famed researcher Acton writes that the widespread misconception about abstinence as the cause of genital atrophy and impotence is a serious mistake.

Convincing evidence of the benefits of abstinence comes from research on sexual orgasm. Havelock Ellis, in his Research in the Psychology of Sex, refers to the research of Dr. FB Robinson. He notes that when the stallion is first admitted to the mare, after a brief vigorous copulation, the stallion often faints, which Robinson sees as the cause of the cerebral anemia thus produced. He mentions one case in which, after copulation, the stallion fell down dead. Young bulls also often lose consciousness after the first contact with a cow, and very often you can see a young bull so exhausted that it crawls into a quiet corner and lies there for several hours. However, dogs do not experience fainting during copulation, since intercourse lasts longer, and dogs do not have any seminal vesicles. As for the hog, the orgasm in these animals is so strong that it seems as if the animal is experiencing a strong painful shock, from which, after copulation, it cannot leave for several hours. Havelock Ellis writes:

“Having understood how much detumescence has an effect (cessation of erection after ejaculation and orgasm, approx.), We can explain the occurrence of serious consequences after copulation. Young bulls and stallions fainted after the first intercourse; hogs can be seriously injured after copulation; the stallions, it has been said, even died. In a man (male), the detumescence time lasts a little longer, however, there are numerous accidents after intercourse, which are the result of vascular and muscle spasms involved in the detumescence process. Fainting, vomiting, urge to urinate often occur in young people after the first copulation in their life. ... Epilepsy was rare. Sometimes there were lesions of various organs, even rupture of the spleen. In mature men, cerebral haemorrhage occurs after intercourse as a result of an inability to resist high blood pressure. In older men, intercourse often caused death, and there are many examples of old men dying after intercourse with their young wives or prostitutes. "

The famous Russian general Skobelev died while living together with a young girl, possibly a prostitute. Researcher Robinson draws attention to the case of a judge who died shortly after having an affair with a girl in a brothel, and the case of a seventy-year-old man who died after having sex with a prostitute. Such unfortunate incidents usually occur in older men as a result of sexual intercourse with young girls.

Acton, a famous medical researcher, writes that in some people, orgasm is accompanied by processes that resemble a mild form of epilepsy. After intercourse, the nervous system is exhausted for a while. This was also seen while observing rabbits, which, after each copulation, fell in a fit of mild epilepsy and rolled their eyes. The animals often made several spasmodic convulsions with their hind limbs, suffocated for some time, until the nervous system was restored. Acton mentions brothel deaths as a result of the adverse effects of orgasm on the nervous system and on the body in general, especially in sensitive people.

Geddes and Thomson, in their book, Gender Development, refer to the fact that some spider species die after the female is fertilized. The same happens with some types of insects.

After intercourse, any living creature for some time lowers the threshold of resistance to disease, fatigue and a decrease in energy sets in.

"Reproduction (reproduction) is the beginning of death. The loss of lecithin and phosphorus with each loss of semen, in any case, leads to a temporary deficiency of these substances in the body, as a result of which the nervous system and the brain first of all suffer. Psychiatric hospitals are overcrowded with patients affected by excessive Lack of lecithin is very detrimental to the brain, measurements have shown its lack in all mentally ill people.

The greatest geniuses of antiquity and modernity, reached the peak of their creativity precisely during forced abstinence. An example is Dante, who wrote "The Divine Comedy" while in exile, Miguel de Cervantes wrote Don Quixote in prison. Milton wrote Paradise Lost being blind, unable to have sex. Newton kept his mind alive up to 80 years thanks to abstinence, the same can be said about L. Da Vinci, Michelangelo and many other great geniuses.

After every sperm loss you lose all the best in your body, every lost drop of sperm will be compensated from your blood. Sperm must be reabsorbed by the body and become the material for the formation of healthy muscles, joints, bones and the brain. By throwing out semen, you are throwing away your life.

When you see such phenomena as paralysis, apoplexy, rheumatism, brain diseases, tired exhausted face, stooped shoulders, when young people turn into old people ahead of time, you can be sure that this is the result of excessive loss of semen and the harmful effects of orgasm, abuse of sexual intercourse ...

You will observe these consequences around you. The consequences will be denied, all diseases of the body will be explained by any other reasons, but we assure you that nothing is so debilitating as excessive sexual activity, and any sexual intercourse is an excess if it does not carry the goal of conceiving children.

The consequences of disobeying this law are shortened lives and increased diseases, examples of which can be seen everywhere.

According to Acton, sexual orgasm resembles an epileptic seizure in both its manifestations and its effects. Mental weakness and physical exhaustion are always companions of sexual orgasm. Acton says that only very healthy sexually mature men can tolerate moderate sex life without consequences. For young people, however, all vitality must be preserved for growth and development.

Dr. Ryan writes that intercourse can be compared to an electric shock; under its influence, both the mind and the body are, the influence is so great that a person does not hear or see anything for several seconds, and some people even give up their lives after intercourse. That is why sexual intercourse is dangerous after severe wounds, bleeding, etc. Here is how Rouband describes the effects of sexual orgasm, comparing it to a mild epileptic seizure:

Blood circulation is accelerated, the beating of the arteries is intensified, venous blood blocked by muscle contraction increases the overall body temperature, and this temporary congestion, especially in the brain, as a result of contraction of the neck muscles and sometimes throwing the head back, causes a sharp accumulation of blood in the brain tissue, at this time the perception of the surrounding world is lost, the ability to think is suspended. The eyes take on their characteristic haggard, sore look. Often the eyes are closed spasmodically during orgasm to avoid contact with light. Breathing becomes more frequent, sometimes interrupted, and can be completely stopped by spasmodic contractions of the larynx, and air, compressed for a while, is finally emitted in the form of groans or scraps of words. Jaws, strongly clenched, often injure a partner's teeth, lips or even shoulders. This insane state lasts for a very short period, but this time is enough to exhaust the strength of the body, especially a person.

Professor Lidston believes that the consequences of sexual abuse are similar to those of masturbation , in both cases, there is a change in blood composition and general metabolism as a result of the loss of lecithin, cholesterol, iron, calcium, phosphorus, etc. It is now widely believed that, unlike masturbation, intercourse is harmless under any conditions and in any quantity.

However, Leadston is adamantly opposed to this claim. He believes that sexual excesses are the most common cause of many diseases in modern society. Moreover, according to the professor, sexual excesses have a detrimental effect not only on the male, but also on the female body.

Here's how Tissot describes the consequences of sexual excess:

Sexual excesses disrupt the activity of almost all organs ... Digestion and sweating are disrupted. There are rheumatic pains, characteristic weakness in the back (poor posture), underdevelopment of the genitals, impaired appetite, headache, etc. In short, nothing shortens life so much as abuse of sexual pleasure.

Dr. Talmy states that frequent intercourse leads to anemia, muscle and nerve asthenia, indigestion, malnutrition, mental exhaustion. People who are overly addicted to sexual pleasures can be recognized by their pale, elongated, flabby faces, which are sometimes especially tense. These people are depressed and usually completely unsuitable for any laborious long-term physical or mental work.

Professor von Gruber believes that the frequent loss of semen results in a "reduction in the specific endocrine secretion of the testicles" that would otherwise enter the bloodstream. Depression, fatigue and general exhaustion, feeling of pressure in the head, insomnia, ringing in the ears, spots before the eyes, fear of bright light, trembling, excessive sweating, muscle weakness, memory impairment, neurasthenia, inability to work mentally and physically, decreased digestive efficiency, - these are, according to the professor, the consequences of sexual excesses for men.

What is excess? Any intercourse that does not carry the purpose of conceiving children is, in fact, an excess. Man is sexually perverted. He is the only animal that supports prostitution, the only animal that is demoralized by all forms of sexual perversion, the only animal whose man (male) attacks women (female), the only animal where the desire of a woman is not the law, the only one who does not use his sexual energy in harmony, as nature intended.

Of all mammals, only civilized man suffers from a self-invented cult of sexual satisfaction, unhealthy sexual excesses. Wild animals mate only at certain times of the year, and only for the purpose of reproduction. The civilized person practices this act always, and in most cases without the purpose of conception.

On the other hand, as Havelock Ellis notes, the more primitive human races, leading more natural lifestyles, are much more chaste and do not suffer from sexual excess. This should suggest that the sexual life of civilized men is unnatural, and that excessive sexual activity among them is not at all due to natural instinct, but due to artificial imposed social stimuli, as well as due to a high-protein diet (along with lack of physical movement), tobacco, alcohol and coffee, sexually stimulating literature, movies, conversations, etc. This may well explain why civilized people give birth to defective offspring much more often than primitive peoples (savages) and animals.

The ancient Spartans were a people with a high level of sexual ethics, who had a common practice of abstaining from sexual excesses. Men and women lived apart, even when they were married.

To preserve chastity, which Lykergus (Sparta's legislator) considered essential for the conservation of the energy of the Spartan race, he (Lykergus) banned the consumption of meat and other stimulating foods, and introduced a vegetarian diet. Alcohol was also banned. Lykergus also banned meals at home so that the people of Sparta would only eat at collective public tables, thus managing their diet, he was able to govern their ethics. The people of Sparta became famous throughout the world for their morality, courage, physical and mental development.

A chaste man is untouched, inexperienced, ready to give a woman all of himself. How to relate to him: to rejoice that he got you "clean", or feverishly look for pitfalls in his "purity"? How to respond to his touching and timid declaration of love, followed by "Honey, I'm still a virgin"? Let's figure it out.

Assessment

Naturally, the chastity of a girl makes a man proud, affection, but what is there - amazement, in the end! Male virginity alarms women and makes them think about all kinds of diseases, fears and his self-doubt.

Any coin has two sides. So think about the benefits of being in a relationship and having sex with a chaste guy. Firstly, you can teach such a man all the delights of love pleasures, he is like plasticine - malleable and in skillful hands turns into a real masterpiece. Secondly, most guys are so grateful to the woman for the first sexual experience that they do not cherish a soul in her, and do not even think about treason (this is not about the first lady who comes to hand, but about the girl for whom the guy has feelings). And thirdly, you must understand that this man did not lose his virginity in the alley or with a prostitute, he was waiting for exactly the same as you, he entrusted you with the most intimate that he has, and this is worth a lot. Think about the fact that everyone once started from scratch, just someone earlier, and someone later, this guy's time has come now, and it is you who can help him become a real man, instill a love of sex, make you love you still more.

If you expect initiative, skill, and relaxedness from the chosen one, but he turns out to be inexperienced and inept, then it is better to immediately put an end to these relations. There are many examples when a virgin man found himself in bed with an experienced lady and she, being dissatisfied, reproached the would-be partner or mocked him. This is even worse for a man than a knife to the heart, since it is about his second "I", masculine strength and nature, his pride and pride are hurt, and he often gets psychological trauma.

Therefore, think carefully whether you can patiently play the role of a leader in bed for a certain time, take the initiative and teach your chosen one? After all, you will have to face shyness, and panic, and dissatisfaction, and hysteria, and this can affect your psyche. If your answer is “no” or you hope to escape after the first time, then do not allow this intimacy, do not make the man suffer in the future and feel inferior.

Before making certain conclusions for yourself about the chosen one, determine why he delayed with his chastity, this will help you make the right decision and suggest further action.

Reason 1. The last of the romantics

There are very few such men, but there are still some. They come up with the ideal woman, dwelling on her. They are constantly looking for her and only calm down when they find her. This reason should not stop you: the man is full-fledged and he has been looking for you all his life.

Reason 2. The ugly duckling

Its story resembles the plot of a famous fairy tale - from the ugly duckling to the beautiful swans. As a child, he was a nerd, he graduated from school with a gold medal, and the university with honors. He has already achieved a lot - he occupies a high position, wealthy and well-groomed, but he has not learned to build relationships with women. It will take you a long time to convince him that loneliness is not an option, but a successful personal life is in his hands. Be patient with his first failures in bed, believe me, he will never forget this.

Reason 3. Puritan upbringing

At one time, his parents did not initiate him into sex issues and did not slip a colorful picture book. Therefore, he grew up closed and unenlightened in this matter, and generally perceived emissions and erections as diseases. Your task is to instill in him a love of intimate life and make him think that sex is not just normal, but also wonderful.

Reason 4. Health status

Our life is unpredictable and sometimes cruel. The irreparable can happen at any moment. Therefore, the fact that a man has never been with a woman because of physical injury, surgery, treatment should not cause a smile or ridicule. It is clear that the guy gave himself the installation that he is inferior, he will not be able to, will fail, and so on. But in fact, the reason is not in the physical state, but in the psychological aspect, and you are a lifesaver for him. Break this invisible barrier in his head, go to a sexologist, and everything will definitely work out.

Dear women, remember that virginity is not a diagnosis, not a sentence or a pathology. But it's up to you to decide, and you will also enjoy or suffer from a relationship with a chaste guy. Therefore, weigh the pros and cons and be happy!

The attitude towards virginity has changed over the centuries. However, it was clear and unambiguous. Today there are different opinions about girlish purity. Of course, women are interested in what men think about virginity.

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In the West, girls have long ceased to keep their virginity for their wedding night. It is considered a relic of the past. If a young girl loses her chastity before marriage, no one will judge her.

In Russia, it is easier to look at girlish purity: they do not condemn, but also do not approve. It is believed that it is a private matter for every girl - whether to protect chastity for a handsome prince or not. The points of view of men on this issue differ.

Why men love girly cleanliness

Statistics show that most girls lose their chastity before the age of 16. A small percentage of girls give up their virginity between the ages of 16 and 18.

There are very few of those who managed to preserve purity until adulthood, without ceasing to dream of a worthy chosen one

Some men are very pleased to know that their girlfriend is still a virgin. Trust and respect and devotion appear. Usually, such a relationship develops well. It so happens that both the man is a virgin and the girl has no sexual experience. Then the partners learn together - through literature, videos and their own feelings.

An innocent girl is more likely to be chosen by the guy who is fixated on his own techniques in sex. An innocent partner can be trained to your standards. With an experienced woman, this will not work, but a virgin will be obedient in bed.

A shy guy or insecure man will welcome an innocent girl. The partner has no one to compare her lover with, which means that no one will notice some male shortcomings.

Unpretentiousness, purity and the ability to teach the wisdom of sex are, of course, strong arguments in favor of girlish purity. However, most often men avoid such relationships.

Why men don't want to deal with virgins

A man who appreciates the pleasure of sex is unlikely to be happy with a virgin partner. An innocent girl cannot reveal herself, feel a partner, catch a wave of passion during the first sex. The deprivation of virginity most often resembles a full-fledged sexual contact, there is nothing even to dream about.

Male psychology is an interesting thing. Guys believe that deprivation of virginity is a huge responsibility, that you need to raise your partner to the peak of bliss during the first sex, nothing less. Of course it is not. Female orgasm is a serious problem for many, a sexologist will tell you more about this. Nevertheless, men are afraid to take on such a burden.

Moreover, having sex with an innocent girl will take patience and a willingness to compromise. Courting a virgin is like turning a part on a machine. Not every guy has these qualities. Some men are just gaining experience themselves, so they avoid contact with virgins.

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Prologue: about yourself, meeting your husband

Hello everyone, my name is Julia. At 32, I am a happy married woman. I want to tell you a story about how I was able to change my marriage.

First, I'll tell you briefly about my life. I am from a wealthy family. I work as a manager in a large company. Of my hobbies, I especially want to highlight reading. Besides, I love shopping, food in good restaurants. I prefer to live a healthy lifestyle with exercise and proper nutrition. For example, I gave up eating red meat.

I don't consider myself particularly beautiful, but I really love my body. I used to think that I was 162 cm tall and weighed 52 kg, but now it seems wonderful to me. I consider myself completely adequate. Despite the fact that my husband Oleg is much stronger than me physically, I have complete control over him, both physically and psychologically.

Sometimes I remember the story of meeting my husband ... I met Oleg at a corporate party six years ago. He is only a year older than me. He carried himself confidently, struck me with a sense of humor, so I laughed all evening. In those early days, Oleg was infinitely kind to me. However, over time, it began to change. I associate this with the growing male ego in him.

When we met Oleg, we had the most ordinary sex, i.e. vanilla sex life. Oleg was not just a polite handsome guy, had a good education and a decent job, he did everything excellently in bed. Two years after we met, we got married.

However, everything went awry in the first year after our wedding. Oleg became less interested in sex. We started spending less and less time together. Different career successes caused great disagreements between us. So, I was quickly promoted in the service, while Oleg's career did not advance. Plus, my salary has doubled. When they talked about this in a circle of friends, Oleg was angry. One evening at our friends' house, he said with a certain sarcasm: "Yulia's boss has plans for her." By this he wanted to emphasize that this is the only reason why I am being promoted. We had an unpleasant argument that evening on the way home.

Late one night I was searching on my computer and found a hidden folder in which I saw "pornography" I did not understand then. It would not surprise me that Oleg masturbated while viewing pornography. But some of the photos were demeaning to the woman. In others, on the contrary, dressed women mocked naked men. This made me feel negative. I lost my pride in the man I married. I tried to talk to Oleg about these photos. And he said that I "do not often spread my legs for him." There was a terrible quarrel, after which we did not speak for a long time.

Acquaintance with Marina. What is male chastity and female superiority?

This incident caused a great chill in our relationship. Our marriage began to appear to me as a sinking ship. And at this very time in my life, a new meeting took place. I met Marina, a very successful employee of a law firm. Our meeting took place thanks to a mutual friend. It turns out that Marina and I worked in the same building and were about the same age. Soon we became friends with Marina, began to have lunch together and do aerobics in the morning. We were both married, we had a successful career, but at the same time Marina seemed happier than me.

One day during lunch I was upset when Marina and I started talking about my marriage. As a sign of support, she extended her hand to me, thanked me for the trust and said that she could help me solve problems and build a great family life.

Marina revealed to me two key words that can change my life: At the first minute, these words puzzled me. However, Marina began to speak brightly and confidently about her marriage, so I quickly got rid of my fears. At the end of the conversation, we both smiled. And Marina said that I have regained femininity and there is a subtle dominant atmosphere next to me.

If you are interested in my letter, then most likely you are interested and This idea intrigued me so much that I wanted to bring it into my own marriage. I suddenly felt that this is exactly what I need in my life. I decided to create my own rules and bend my husband to my will. Not for a moment did I doubt that male chastity can be unfair to a man. I immediately believed that male chastity was the best course of action for me, my husband, and our marriage.

I started by studying the sites that Marina recommended to me. In a way, I identified my interests with those of Marina. She was not interested in leather, whips, chains, feminization. However, Marina considered it necessary female superiority ... Her beliefs boiled down to the fact that a woman should lead a marriage, and a husband should serve and obey his wife. On these sites, smart men and women have written about the benefits of a woman-dominated marriage - female superiority based on.

I visited Marina and appreciated how wonderful her life is. When we sat and drank wine, her husband Artyom satisfied all our needs. He served us in boxer shorts. At some point, Marina ordered him to take off his panties. I have seen before this photographs of male members in a chastity belt. But to see it with my own eyes was a revelation for me. I was amazed. If only some women could be raped, but not Marina. I especially liked the look of his embarrassed face. In conclusion, Marina casually took the penis in her hands and lowered it back into the chastity device, where he could not express any "protest". It was a symbolic moment! I couldn't help laughing. Marina laughed with me, pinching Artyom's red cheek. At the same time Marina remarked: “Look, Julia, how he blushes. However, he likes his new life. Isn't that so, Artyom? " “Yes, Madam!” Artem answered, while he looked as if he liked this situation.

So, Marina treated Artem as a beloved student, not her husband. She used an arrogant tone in conversation with him. I soon realized that the tone of authority is crucial when it comes to establishing female superiority. . Marina clarified this point as follows: “A man needs an authoritative figure. He does not ask for it initially, but waits for it. "

Thus, you should not assume equality in marriage. Since it is equality that creates all kinds of problems. In the family, someone must become a leader, i.e. a decision maker and unconditional authority. And this someone must be a woman. So, the wives should take the initiative, i.e. Marina and me.

First steps: the foundation of marriage is female superiority

At first it was difficult for me to imagine male chastity. applied to my husband. But I've already made a decision. Even if it sounds selfish, what I pay close attention to is always a great success. In addition, I noticed that Oleg is already ready for this ... After all, the photos he needed to masturbate are associated with female domination. It should not be ruled out that I have always won in disputes before. Before the chill in our relationship, Oleg often joked about this.

So I decided that the foundation of our marriage should be female superiority. I showed Oleg articles in which male chastity helped build better relationships in marriage. I persuaded him by promising to improve his sex life. At the same time, I teased him with my sexuality. In turn, I want to say that I love my husband, despite the cooling of relations between us.

Second step: the main thing is male chastity

I would like to imagine how all this worked on Oleg ... He was married to a very successful, attractive woman who wanted to cultivate male chastity in him. He hesitated for a while, but still agreed.

Where did I start? I was based on the idea that Oleg always liked manual stimulation. Therefore, I began to constantly caress his penis, using the best advice from the Internet and my friend Marina. And Oleg had no chance to resist. I was impressed by the fact that I actually acted as an aggressor and, in fact, raped Oleg. I envisioned this as a counterbalance to all unwanted sexual assault by women from men. But if these women were subjected to violence against their will, then Oleg readily agreed to the new attention given to him. However, he could not understand where all this would lead.

So, I gave Oleg the best sexual satisfaction in his life, but not as often as he would like. I completely changed the sex play.

My Male Chastity Program: Getting Started - Penis Manipulation

My Male Chastity program lasted 14 months. The first days were especially difficult. Sometimes Oleg said that he could not do it and offered to break off the relationship. To these "pleas" I "answered" with female arrogance. I didn't want to part with him, but at the same time I was ready to do without him if he did not obey the new set of rules. I never forced Oleg to do this, but I kind of “taught” him as a teacher of a student that this is the best way forward for our marriage. In addition, I tried to convey to Oleg that it would be useful both for me and for him, that it is much better than his current life with watching porn and masturbating.

Oleg always liked how I do manual cock stimulation. This is due to the speed and dexterity of my hands. I am exceptionally fast at typing and have done great piano work. But in connection with my husband's upbringing program, I began to concentrate on manual stimulation techniques, i.e. her ultimate goal. So, in the first 60 days of the Male Chastity program, I became an expert and learned how to manipulate his cock. And Oleg himself admitted that this new technique excites him greatly and promised to think about accepting my program.

The first day of the chastity belt test has come. The first time I put it in a chastity device (plastic and transparent) for 48 hours. After this time, I casually unbuckled my belt and gently stroked my penis. He got aroused instantly. I slowed down my stroking by making him promise me to wear the belt for three days after he had an orgasm. Three days later, I repeated it all, forcing him to agree to five days. I could not help but see how Oleg's mind resists what is happening. However, he agreed with everything. In other words, I was holding it in my hands.

Husband accepts female superiority

My skill in manual stimulation has reached its climax. Soon Oleg was in the chastity device for a week. This time, when I brought him to orgasm, strongly grabbing his penis with one hand and balls with the other, I whispered: "Who controls your penis, Oleg?" At that moment, I myself could not believe in my own insolence. But Oleg was so obsessed, he almost choked with pleasure: "You, Julia." He agreed that his next release from the chastity belt would take place in two weeks. His body shook. He looked at me with an embarrassed, amazed look. With a gesture, I ordered him to stand in front of me and said: "It's time to put the chastity belt on you again." I gingerly tugged at the equipment to see if everything was okay. Then she closed the lock and tucked the key under her neck. Both Marina and I prefer to wear the key to the chastity belt when we are at home, in a medallion on the chest, so that it always reminds us of what female superiority means.

Oleg repeatedly whined when his abstinence increased over time. I confronted his complaints with a gentle smile. Every time I turned on feminine charm. I used Oleg's favorite perfume, which always worked wonders with him. I used makeup at home. I always wore beautiful skirts and dresses above the knee. So, for the first time in my life, I felt my sexual power. Once I teased him, but Oleg suddenly pulled away sharply: “I know what you want to do!”. I made an offended look. Oleg apologized. I told him that I loved him very much and began to rub my stomach gently. Experiencing excitement (after all, he is in a chastity belt) Oleg said: "It hurts, but I can accept it." He took over my leadership. But I knew there was still a long way to go. Capricious men can be unpredictable.

The first successes of the program: the husband accepts male chastity (chastity belt)

So passed the first two difficult months of the program “male chastity “. Finally, Oleg agreed to wear a chastity belt for a whole month. This required a lot of persuasion. When Oleg began to complain about his excitement and excitement, I took him to bed with me and aroused him mercilessly. His cock tensed in a chastity belt, cum flowing from him. One night in the third week of his chastity belt, Oleg was especially close to me in bed. This night was a breakthrough in his upbringing. I caressed the inside of his thigh. And he began kissing my neck and chest with great passion. I let it drop between my legs. My husband only focused on giving me pleasure by making me cunnilingus. However, he ignored his own needs. After my orgasm, we hugged tightly, and he told me how strange he felt and how this thing affects him.

The next three weeks were amazing. And after three months of the "male chastity" program, Oleg passed the test within one month. That night, I freed him from his chastity belt, brought him to the strongest orgasm I have ever seen in a man. At the same time, a wave of trembling went through Oleg's body. He closed his eyes and moaned loudly and for a long time, scratching his nipples. Sperm flowed out of his penis for a long time. I have never seen anything like it. Towards the end of his orgasm, I noticed saliva flowing out of his mouth. In the following minutes, I read complete devotion in Oleg's eyes. I will never forget this moment.

I made steady progress in the male chastity program after six months. But sometimes there were still moments when Oleg was upset and complained. This was due to the fact that he had to learn to wait and endure. I decided that the time had come to impose my will on Oleg even more and to strengthen my power over him. I spent a lot of time thinking about how to do this.

New Parenting Method: Spanking Complements Male Chastity Program

One day, when I was returning home, a new idea came to me. I remembered the collection of pornography in my husband's folder. I reviewed it again. There were many videos related to the spanking of men by women. Why didn't it occur to me earlier? I presented the psychological consequences of the spanking for my husband. And I decided to do that flogging should be part of the parenting program.

That same night, I started implementing. It's been a full month since his last orgasm. But he had to endure another two weeks, as he was punished for bad behavior. He complained bitterly. Therefore, I convinced Oleg that I would release him from the chastity belt only in a month. I took a large wooden comb in my hands, hid it behind my back, sat on a chair in the center of the room, ordered my husband to undress and come up to me. This moment became the key in my final victory over my husband and proved to him my female superiority.

Having received a blow from a comb, Oleg jumped. Completely naked, he looked like a shamed dog, and his cock, sharpened in a chastity belt, was excited by surprise. His face was filled with amazement when he saw the comb. Then a very entertaining dialogue took place between us.

“Oleg,” I began.

“You can't beat me,” he interrupted me.

I sighed and said quite calmly: "Oleg, do you think you were happier during these six months?"

I asked him this question because I felt that Oleg seemed happy. At home he was more attentive, gave me massages, helped me more around the house, and often gave me oral pleasure. I no longer allowed sex, but at the same time, and earlier, he preferred manual stimulation more to sex. Accordingly, refusing to have sex was not a punishment for him. In addition, sometimes Oleg confessed to me a strange feeling of happiness.

“I don’t know,” he replied. "Sometimes it's very hard for me."

“But not so often,” I said.

“Damn it, Julia, it's not so easy!”

But I already knew that he was in my hands. I told him that he behaved excellently during the transition period. I also noticed. that I love him more than ever. But additional education is needed to wean him from grunting and whining about early release from the chastity belt. I spoke so confidently that Oleg stood with a red face and knew that he was in my hands.

“Oleg, I offer you two options. Either it will flogging and I will let you have an orgasm in two weeks in case of good behavior. Either you disobey me, and then I have no choice but to extend your abstinence for a month, taking into account your bad behavior.

Oleg began to choke: “I don’t know, Yulia, what to do”.

Then I got up, gently took his hand and said in a convincing voice: “Let yourself go, Oleg! Deep down, you know that you need it. "

Oleg stood next to the chair without resistance and I said: "I'm proud of you." I ordered him to look me in the eye so that he felt female superiority. And he agreed.

I didn't want to hit him hard the first time. He cried. I have already told him my views on the need for flogging. However, on his ass, the comb made a subtle, pleasant sound, and I hit firmly and confidently. Then he sobbed. I got aroused at the same time, got up, pulled down my panties ... Oleg buried his head between my thighs and I had four or five continuing impressive orgasms. I was amazed at how he tried to improve his oral sex technique. After that, I went to the bathroom, and Oleg with a damp red face began to cook dinner.

Female Superiority - Husband's Resistance Broken

When I entered the kitchen in a bright beautiful dress, I saw that my husband with a red ass was standing at the stove. I got the idea to attach a chain to a plate. After that, I often tied him to the stove in order to show what psychological effect it gives female superiority.

So the husband was standing at the stove. I liked the way his hips sway reflexively. So I pushed lightly on each loaf. And pointedly said: "From now on you will be regularly flogged." His look showed that he did not doubt it.

“Yes, Lady,” he said without warning.

It was nice that I didn't have to tell Oleg to call me that. Now I am “Mistress” for my husband.

Thus, the tipping point passed successfully, confirming my feminine superiority. . Now every Sunday I was doing an analysis of his behavior. This usually led to several blows and often from the sixth to the ninth month of the Male Chastity program Oleg received flogging.

He also received flogging during the week if he expressed dissatisfaction. He was still in no rush to do housework: washing dishes, washing or ironing my clothes. After all, he initially viewed these cases as "womens". Therefore, he did not always carry out household chores in a good mood, with full respect and gratitude.

Around this time, my secret desire was also to show it to other women. I considered the candidacies of my friend Marina and younger sister Ira. She was 29 years old and recently broke up with her boyfriend. I've read articles about how serving a husband to girlfriends is a powerful way to increase his submission and control. However, this moment is very delicate. Here all the chances of success had to be calculated. During this period, between the sixth and ninth months of the Male Chastity program, Oleg was less and less resistant to the new regime. Finally, the time has come for female supremacy to gain an all-encompassing victory.

New Success for Male Chastity: Remote Controlled Chastity Belt

However, I was even more successful with the remote control chastity belt. I began to control Oleg's submission with electric shock. With the remote control, I effortlessly manipulate my husband's pain and pleasure centers. I first used electric current control on a Saturday night. He just finished work in the yard. At that time I was in the house and read. Oleg went into the house and waited for me to speak to him first. This is part of our agreement for the Male Chastity Program . So I took my time. When I looked up, I saw that he was standing perfectly straight, his hands at the seams and waiting for my instructions. I told him that I would be home in a couple of hours and ordered to iron my suits. He was upset because he wanted to watch football, but didn't mind when I showed him the remote control from his chastity belt. Once again I had to point out to Oleg that I set the rules here. This prescribes female superiority to me. I advised him to change his attitude towards doing what I tell him. As a punishment, I set up electric pulses for him. I loved watching him as he winced under the magical shocks.

After the electric shock therapy, my husband began to move at double speed towards my suits, which he was ordered to iron. What a great motivating example of electric current! I ended by telling him that if he does a good job, I won't have to use the remote. At the same time, I tapped my finger on my pocket.

Oleg just shuddered, saying: "Yes, Madam!".

And I headed for the door to focus on my own life. At times I thought of Oleg, who ironed suits, sinking deeper and deeper into obedience. And if this does not happen, then his groin will remind him of what female superiority is. At the thought of this, I gently tingled inside with pleasure.

Upon returning home, I saw suits perfectly ironed and hung in the closet. Oleg was preparing dinner in the kitchen. When he saw that I entered the room, he quickly walked over and knelt down without saying a word. He asked me if I needed a foot massage. During the massage, he looked at me with the submissive look of a puppy and said: “I love you, Lady!”. The intimacy that Oleg had with us during the foot massage and subsequent worship of my vagina was beyond my wildest dreams. I could not have imagined such a success of the "Male chastity" program at the moment when Marina first introduced me to this way of life.

Feminine superiority reaches its climax: humiliated husbands serve wives and their girlfriends!

Finally, the moment came when I “introduced” my husband to other women. I invited Marina, her husband Artem, sister Ira, cousin Alla with her friends Rita and Angela to my home. We did not tell Oleg and Artem how many guests there would be. They assumed that they would only serve me and Marina. Oleg was already upset enough, so I had to give him a dose of electric current.

How surprised Oleg and Artem were when they entered the living room naked in their chastity belts and saw six smiling women. Marina said a few parting words to them: “Julia and I are very proud of what we have made of you. Therefore, we decided to show you to our friends. It may be humiliating for you, but it's all for your own good. ” At the same time, Marina and I raised our remote control devices (by that time Marina had also acquired a similar toy) and put our fingers on the buttons. We wanted to push them as synchronously as possible.

Then I took the floor: “You must understand how important your good behavior is for us on this day, when we invited our friends. So think carefully before you object. " At the same time, we simultaneously pressed the corresponding buttons on our remotes. We watched Oleg and Artem moan almost simultaneously. What a wonderful moment it was! Then we told them that we want them to stand on tiptoe when they serve us. This fully demonstrated our female superiority.

So we used our remotes to control our husbands' chastity belts. This motivated them perfectly. Our word became law for them. Our friends found it all amusing. Our chastity husbands have demonstrated ideal male behavior, confirming the triumph of the Male Chastity program.

Oleg and Artem served us for several hours. And at the same time six women had fun, drank wine, ate wonderful dishes and talked sweetly. After the first use of electric current with the help of our remote controls, Oleg and Artem began to serve us impeccably. Their intense embarrassment was also palpable. Both were red-faced. At the time of serving lunch, Marina and I told our friends how our husbands were masturbating and how we put an end to it. At the same time, Alla and her friends clenched their fists and pretended to jerk off. And my sister Ira wanted to see how Oleg and Artem did it. Marina and I made our husbands take their dicks and try to masturbate. The women laughed again.

Thus, our husbands received a good portion of humiliation that day. But I think it's for the best, because I know that deep down they liked it. But unlike them, women did not hide their pleasure. Our husbands, serving us, did not say a word. All they were allowed to say was: "Yes, Lady!" or “Thank you, Madam!”. I don't know if they are used to being in such a humiliating state, but I'm glad of that. The women had a great time showing off their female superiority ... At the end of the evening, our husbands bowed to us and thanked all six of us - each individually - for the honor and privilege of serving and entertaining us. The sincerity and devotion shown by them was very appropriate. Marina and I said that we were proud of them, and then sent them to the kitchen to say goodbye to our friends.

I am the center of the world for my husband and this is how it should be!

This is how amazing the key a woman has to a man's sexual freedom. This is how the program works “ Male chastity “!

Of course, training for men can never be completed. There will always be new ways to prove our female superiority! Oleg and Artem have found their place in life, at our feet, where they belong. And if you ask them how they feel, they will say with complete confidence that they have never been so happy. I cannot speak for Artyom - he is Marina's husband. But as for Oleg, every night before going to bed he buries himself between my legs and tells me how proud and happy he is to satisfy my desire. It doesn't matter to me what others think about it. I know that we are much happier now than it was before and we live in peace and harmony. I am a leader, feminine superiority allows me to have a loving and devoted man who takes care of everything that I do not have the time, energy or desire for. And Oleg serves a higher power, chastity helps him. I am the center of his world, the Teacher in every sense of the word. It should be so.

Best regards, Julia.